What People Are Saying

 
 

 “I have known Debbie and Paul Pierson for several years and have interacted with them enough to trust their hearts and wisdom. They completed a one week School of Spiritual Direction under my leadership in the summer of 2009 and demonstrated an open, eager and humble attitude as students. They exhibited an intuitive grasp of what most needs to be understood in offering spiritual direction to married couples. I have no hesitation in recommending them to this ministry.”

— Larry Crabb, PhD.

 
 
 

“Debbie and Paul bring a unique, special approach to their course that makes a difference in marriage. By teaching us to learn more about one another, we were able to grow in our relationship and know how we each respond to certain situations rather than how to deal with those situations after the fact. Their course helped us learn about each other even more, and helped grow our relationship stronger than it was before. Their course will help prepare you for marriage through all of life’s highs and lows and will truly make a difference in your life. Not only did Debbie and Paul help prepare us for marriage, they have become lifelong friends and mentors that will forever be part of our lives. We are truly grateful for their mentorship, guidance, and friendship.”

— RJ & Jenna Routzahn

 
 
 

“We all have our own baggage we bring into our relationships. Through the course of Life on Life with Debbie & Paul, we were taught how to successfully unpack our own baggage and further understand who we are as individuals beneath the water line. Debbie & Paul helped us discover that living the managed life above the waterline was unfulfilling and that only through our authentic, unsheltered identity with who God has made us to be can we thrive in relationships. Each week Debbie and Paul share their own stories and how the lesson is applicable. They are genuine, unfiltered, authentic, and inspiring. We would recommend this course to anyone that is tired of managing their false identity and ready to accept and live out the authentic story God has written for them.”

— Dustin & Shawn Calbus

 
 
 

“Since my wife Jeanne and I met Paul & Debbie at a Larry Crabb conference in 2015, we’ve developed a deep friendship and have spent many hours together sharing our stories and discussing a myriad of life issues. After sitting in on some of their Life-on-Life marriage class sessions (and reviewing and using in my ministry the training materials they use), I can confidently recommend Paul & Debbie and their Life-on-Life classes and approach to marriage and relationships as the best I’ve come across in my 41 years of pastoral ministry. They provide a needed relational and biblical foundation upon which individuals and couples can build (or rebuild) their lives and marriages by helping them see and begin responding in a more mature and healthy way to the relational triggers and recurring patterns that living together in marriage reveal. Paul & Debbie are relational and real both in their class presentations and in outside of class conversations. I highly recommend them and their ministry and believe any individual or couple would benefit from their Life-on-Life classes.”

— Pastor Nathan Mains Hope Community Church Frankenmuth, Michigan

 
 

“My husband and I signed up for paul and debbie’s class shortly after we moved to the area. We didn’t know what to expect from a marriage class and we were mainly looking for ways to connect with people and build a community. Little did we know how this class would change our lives..

Paul and Debbie pour their hearts and souls into this class. They open the doors to see the struggles and successes of their marriage, and in that way, they foster growth and self reflection in yours. Their honesty and vulnerability is REAL.

We will forever be grateful for the skills we gained from their class. We learned tools that prepared us to face some of the hardest times in our marriage. Moving to a new town, children, illness, in-laws, pandemic..

What we got from that class was way more than we could’ve imagined. Not only was our marriage strengthened, but we made lifelong friendships. We found people to do life with, people who support, love and grow with us. That’s invaluable.”

— Dr. Rolando & Emily Peralta

 

 “If you are married, soon-to-be married or even thinking about one day getting married, Heart & Soul taught by Paul and Debbie Pierson is an absolute necessity. As instructors, you'd be hard pressed to find a couple as open, genuine, passionate and insightful as these two. My fiance and I took this class six months before our wedding. During the course, Paul and Debbie both shared intimate and personal stories that gave insight into the gritty, tough parts of marriage that all couples will encounter (and new couples may not be aware of). They taught us to examine our pasts in order to understand how we love and react to our significant others today. The lessons we learned from this course have helped every relationship in our lives - not just our marriage. Thank you, Paul and Debbie!!!.”

— Rabi and Claire Alhindi

 
 
 

“Paul and Debbie coach and teach from their own personal marriage story. They are honest, passionate, and educated about the real relational struggles of life and therefore are uniquely equipped to come alongside couples and individuals seeking help to grow and develop a more intimate marriage bond. We highly recommend Paul and Debbie to anyone needing support in their marriage journey..”

— Gary Heim, MA, LLP and Lisa Heim, MA, LPC, True North Ministries, Inc.

 
 
 

“Paul and Debbie Pierson mentored us with insight, understanding, and experience. They are knowledgeable about marriage, parenting, and the Christian journey, and worked with us both one-to-one and couple-to-couple. We would encourage those seeking faith or marriage support to consider any program of which they are a part.”

— Erik and Michelle Schnurstein

 
 

“Our involvement with the Pierson’s Marriage workshops, began over ten years ago.  We also attended their Heart & Soul class, and we have been married for 56 years. Their presentation in strengthening marriage relationships were very insightful, in the following ways:

  • Above all, our own personal relationship to Christ must come first.

  • Before fixing your spouse, you need to be self reflective and fix yourself.

  • Respond to…not react to situations.

  • Develop empathy for your spouse.    

  • Recognize your reaction might indicate your own hidden “core lie” about your self image.

  • Model responses of good behavior toward your spouse. 

  • Use “I” statements…instead of “you” statements. 

  • Make time for each other. 

Both spouses receive their own workbook and then privately share with their responses at home. This created a safe environment, while in the class, so that answers were kept sealed between couples. This class was open to all ages, whether married or single.

Debbie and Paul always arranged private times for couples to meet for more personal support.  The Heart & Soul class presentations were very well attended, informative, and motivational. We personally learned strategies not only for our own marriage, but were able to pass along some of these techniques to others.  Debbie and Paul Pierson were always professional, maintained privacy, and were available to help couples who were seeking to strengthen their marriage.  We highly recommend them.”

— Linda & Richard Stevens

 
 
 

"Paul and Debbie are great folks who have a passion to help couples build healthy marriages. They bring experience, transparency, and insight to their Heart & Soul classes. We found the time we invested with them to be well worth it!!"

— Pastor Tom & Ruth Ann Robinson Knox Presbyterian Church Ann Arbor, Michigan

 
 

“We absolutely loved our pre marital class with the Piersons! The structure of the class was really great for us because we were able to read, and have discussions on our own before each class. The book brought up things we had never discussed before and it helped us learn so much more about each other before we became husband and wife.

Then we would meet with Debbie and Paul and they would explain things in such an easy way for us to understand. They stressed the importance of communication and also discovering how our past has such an impact on our marriage. We felt so much more prepared after going through this class and we have been able to practice many techniques we learned.

We have a better understanding of each others triggers and emotions. We've been able to communicate in a more healthy way and it's been such a blessing. We cannot recommend this class enough!”

— Hannah & Parker Foy

 
 
 

"Phil and I had the pleasure of meeting Debbie and Paul in 2019 during one of their many Heart & Soul classes focused on the heart and soul of a real marriage. We gravitated to them instantly due to their genuine, compassionate, and authentic spirits. They were very open with sharing their whole selves, which resulted in the class being like one big healing gathering each session. We would like to thank both Debbie and Paul! They helped us to be vulnerable with one another and that resulted with us loving well and listening well. God Bless you, Debbie and Paul!”

— Charmain & Phil Holmes

 

“Paul and Debbie Pierson have a passion to see individuals and marriages find healing. Because of their willingness to examine their own lives and marriage, they can relate in a real way to others who seek healing that gives hope and examines the core issues. Their teaching and one-on-one sessions allow each person to feel safe and loved. Paul and Debbie are the real deal and have much to offer to those seeking their help. We have been thrilled to see how God has been using them for His Kingdom.”

— Don & Becky Smith Bridge To Life Ministries

 

"My husband and I joined the Pierson’s Heart and Soul class not knowing what to expect. We had been together for six years and married for two. We agreed that our marriage was a solid 8/10 but there is always room for improvement. We walked away with a deeper understanding of one another as man and woman, husband and wife, and individuals with a toolbox full of better ways to communicate, love ourselves and one another.

We were diligent about doing the homework and then discussing after we finished. We would talk for hours, bearing our souls and really seeing one another who we are, what went into shaping us as individuals and who we want to be.

Paul and Debbie’s teaching style was so fun and engaging while being completely open, honest and raw about their own journey.

Their love for each other, people and teaching radiated through them. They are the type of couple that you immediately want to befriend in order to keep the conversation and fun going (and we did!).

I can’t recommend their class enough. We loved it so much we took it multiple times!”

— Heather Torri